In Memory of

Richard

Melvin

Deslaurier

Condolences

Condolence From: Sharon Deslaurier
Condolence: Hi Ricky, here is the 2nd story Hans shared with me: I remember staying overnight at the house on Morrisset. Rick and I were staying in the basement and we heard a noise, so we looked out the window and someone was trying to break into his car; A 68 Mustang he had at the time. So we ran up the stairs in our underwear and I made it to the middle of the lawn and wiped out sideways in a pile of BiBi's crap. It was up my leg and all over the side of my body. You're bother looked and me and fell to his knees laughing. Needless to say, the guys got away. Sharon, I stunk like crazy & it was nasty!! Nice memories. I'm so happy you had these awesome friends in your life. Love you, miss you.
Sunday May 02, 2021
Condolence From: Sharon Deslaurier
Condolence: Hi Ricky, Finally found you old friend Hans Niggemann, well.. actually he found us. He shared with us 2 amazing stories that well deserved to be posted for all who visited to see. This is the 1st story he shared: Thank you for sharing the Youtube video of Rick. After watching it I had to go for a long drive alone after. The last time I saw Rick was around ‘83 or ‘84’ I want to tell you a little story which takes me back to the 60's when I was around 6 or 7 years old that you may find interesting. I grew up at the corner of Preston St. and Aberdeen. The Pure Spring bottling plant had just been demolished behind my house but the garage for the trucks was still standing on the north side of Aberdeen. Someone who fixed cars rented part of it on the east end of the garage and as a young kid who loved cars at the time would go over there and watch the men work. They had the doors open most of the times in the summer heat. There was a man there at the time who called me in saying "hey kid, come here". I went in and he asked me to go to the greasy spoon the near corner of Rochester and Beech. I forget what the place was called though. At the time coffee was 5 cents so I would get the coffee and sandwiches they wanted and this kind man would give me the leftover change as long as I was honest about it. I hung around there and watched the men work in total fascination until the boss or owner would tell me to get lost. The man was very kind to me and would answer any question I had making me feel very important and sometimes he would joke around a little with me asking when I would get a girlfriend, which would make me blush a little, but he was very kind easy on me. Now let’s go forward 11 or 12 years: I met Rick because he was going out with my sister and we really hit it off and started hanging out to my sister's dismay. We had a great time doing some crazy and stupid stuff feeding off each other’s insanity (yes Rick could be crazy). One day Rick took me over to where you're father worked at Raymond's Body Shop off Cambridge St. (I think I was 18 or 19 at the time) and introduced me to your father, Red. Well Jeez! That was the man that was so kind to me when I was a kid many years before. I thought the world of your dad and so did Rick. It's crazy how paths cross so many times. The two of them were very good people.
Sunday May 02, 2021
Condolence From: Sharon Deslaurier
Condolence: Hi RIcky, Just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. Today you would have turned 65. Know that we all love you and we all miss you very much. 2020 has not been a good year so far. The world is trying to fight and recover from this caronavirus so we have all been isolating and not being able to see family. Easter, Mother's Day passed without much notice and we had to cancel your celebration of life until government feels its safe for people to gather again. That said, I couldn't let today go by without saying hello to you and sending birthday wishes. Know I love you and miss my big brother dearly. Love, hugs and kisses, Sharon xoxo
Wednesday May 20, 2020
Condolence From: david andrew
Condolence: my thoughts are with the whole family.i first knew ricki when i was just 13 living across the street on bedale.He always seemed quiet but had a strong silent strength. A strength that always was a great comfort to his family and those who knew him,he will be missed God bless
Friday March 13, 2020
Condolence From: Jim Cowell
Condolence: I send my condolences to Rick's family. I worked with Rick at Nortel and he taught me by example of his enjoyment and enthusiasm for the job that telecommunications can be fun.
Friday March 06, 2020
Condolence From: Sharon Deslaurier
Condolence: Dear Ricky… It’s been a week and I still don’t know how to put this into words. I’m so sad, heavy-hearted, in such dis-believe this happened to you. I’m angry because once we knew what was wrong, it was too late, you didn’t have a chance, it was all so fast. So unfair. You didn’t deserve any of this. I try to look at the silver linings but it doesn’t take away the pain of losing my big brother. I’ve read what others have written and they described you so perfectly. Your quiet strength and presence calmed my anxiousness to feeling safe and secure and everything was going to be OK. All those tomorrows lost. I need to believe you heard our words, felt our touches and knew we were there with you. I take comfort knowing that family was there waiting to greet you on the other side. Love you and will miss you forever and always… Sharon
Friday February 21, 2020
Condolence From: Robert Lavictoire
Condolence: To Laura and the Deslauriers family We knew Rick for many years Was always a pleasure to be around him. Murielle and Bob are so sorry to hear of the passing of Ricky. our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Rest in peace. Bob and Murielle
Friday February 21, 2020
Condolence From: Rhonda Deslaurier
Condolence: Dear Aunt Irene ,Elaine, Allen , Sharon & Family My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time Love Always , Cousin Rhonda
Friday February 21, 2020
Condolence From: Bev Steinberg
Condolence: My condolences to Laura and Rich's family. I have had the great pleasure of working with Rich over the last 14 years. He was a kind, caring and gentle man, so easy to get along with, never said no, would do anything to help you out and always had your best interest at heart. I will miss you Rich. May you rest in peace ......
Thursday February 20, 2020
Condolence From: Ferguson Family
Condolence: Uncle Rick's passing was sudden and every time I look at his picture I don't want to accept the truth. But the strength my mom and Grandma have shown me has been an inspiration to embrace the many memories and I know that Rick is at peace because he was surrounded by so much unconditional love. Rick will forever be in our hearts. We love you - Sylvia, Bubba, Jemma, Kendra & Mya
Wednesday February 19, 2020
Condolence From: Guy Jeffrey
Condolence: Work Friends I've known and worked with Rick since 2008. Rick was a total gentleman. He always went above and beyond. He would go out of his way to help others, never expecting anything in return. Rick worked his behind off, would offer to stay late or come in early if needed. Rick was always friendly and we've had some great conversations over the years. He used to stop by my office every morning to check out the birds and squirrels that we feed. We used to tease Rick about making sure his hair was cut before going to see his mother. You'll be missed my friend!
Wednesday February 19, 2020
Condolence From: Jen raymond
Condolence: The Golden heart I wanna write something very special for Rick, But it's really hard to write with my eyeballs pouring out. The Golden heart Every single day Rick visited My day got so much brighter He always made me smile And the lottery tray got lighter He was a true gentleman His heart was as gold as his hair He was definitely family to me That's why I really care I made sure to always get him a card Whether for xmas or birthday Cuz he deserves it most of all No matter what he always makes my day It's still a mystery how he knew How he knew about Nevada ticket Where that big winner was He definitely had a golden horseshoe in his mitt I'll never forget how helpful he was That time he helped me with the chairs I would of never got all four of em home Especially with the parking lot stairs I was always excited when he did lottery I really enjoyed watching him win Seeing his big smile Or better yet his biggest grin I am super very lucky to have had Rick in my life And I'll never forget how I gave all my lucks After he shouted "bye Jen! See ya tomorrow!" "Good luck Rick! See ya tmmw! You better win the big bucks!!!" I'll be forever waiting for that tmmw Rick You will forever missed
Wednesday February 19, 2020
Condolence From: Valerie Burton
Condolence: Dear Irene, Elaine, Sharon and Allen I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you have many warm memories to help you through this difficult time. Hugs - Valerie
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Raymond Lafleur
Condolence: My deepest Condolences to Richard Family.Work with him for 13 years of joy .Richard was always there went you need him.Will mist you Richard. But never Forgotten Raymond Lafleur
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Carol Ann Berndt (Deslaurier)
Condolence: My sincere condolences go out to Ricky’s family at this very difficult time. Growing up together as 1st cousins living down the street from each other was so much fun We were always playing together along with getting into trouble together Ricky could fix, take apart , repair and put things back together in record time Such a talented, humorous young man His skills followed him through life along with his infectious laugh We will miss you Ricky Sending my love 😍 Carol Ann
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: David Lavictoire
Condolence: Ricky was such a kind man. So sweet and patient with the kids. Ricky had such a calm demeanor and nothing ever seemed to ruffle his feathers. Ricky you will truly be missed. David, Jen, Katelyn and Chloe
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Mark Champagne
Condolence: Rick was my best friend growing up and although we had lost touch for most of the last 30 years I will always remember all the great times we had. I am deeply saddened that he is now gone. Our deepest condolences to his wife Laura and family. Rest In Peace Ricky.
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Karen & Jim Flinn
Condolence: Sincere condolences to you and Richards' family. What a sad shock! I worked with Richard for many years at Kelly Signs, and my husband knew him for many years as well when Jim was with a sister company. Richard was quick to help and very rarely had a bad word or complaint. I enjoyed working with him and will miss him and his quirky laugh. God speed Richard. You will be missed. Karen & Jim Flinn
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Stacey Stocks
Condolence: My deepest condolences to Richard's whole family. He was one of the nicest people I knew, always there to lend a helping hand. You could always rely on Richard, he was always there for you. I will truly miss him.
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Marc Nadon
Condolence: All my condolences to Rick's family... Known Rick for 14 years as a co-worker he will be mist by many at Kelly signs . R.I.P. buddy will miss you...
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Brett Bowman
Condolence: Richard is a great friend and family man. He was always there for everyone and could always make you laugh. Just want to say to his mom you raised a great man and he was so proud of you
Tuesday February 18, 2020
Condolence From: Mark Kelly
Condolence: My deepest condolences to Richard's family and friends. I had the honor of working with Richard at Kelly Signs in the last 2 years. He was undoubtedly one of the most dedicated sign installation technicians I have had the opportunity to work with. Richard lifted up the people around him by the positive "we can do anything" spirit that he gave in an abundance. Richard rest in peace, you will be dearly mist, but never forgotten.
Tuesday February 18, 2020